Revert petrify to being handled by freestanding functions

- Also change kill/damage to take a player/monster reference instead of an index

src/boe.townspec.cpp

@@ -76,7 +76,7 @@ bool run_trap(short pc_num,eTrapType trap_type,short trap_level,short diff) {
 			for(i = 0; i < num_hits; i++) {
 				add_string_to_buf("  A knife flies out!");
 				r1 = get_ran(2 + univ.town.difficulty / 14,1,10);
-				damage_pc(pc_num,r1,eDamageType::WEAPON,eRace::UNKNOWN,0);
+				damage_pc(disarmer,r1,eDamageType::WEAPON,eRace::UNKNOWN,0);
 			}
 			break;